The only party I seem to be able to get out to every once in a while is Van Dam. Johnny plays a lot of great dance music, and the open bar from 10 - 11 usually provides me with my fill of cranberry juice and ginger ale (I'm not a drinker, oh well). Some people who go to that party are pretty straight, and don't want to even look at a trannie or a freak, but I've found that most of the guests are a lot of fun, especially when they get a little tipsy.
Here's a picture I got from last Sunday night (7/19/09).